Today I'm going to talk about first kisses. I just want to address especially to youngins that there is not certain age to have your first kiss. It just happens. I've seen online people that are 12 years old saying they haven't had their first kiss. First of all, you are 12. I was still a kid at 12. I was in the 6th grade. I've always been a hopeless romantic and had that fairy tale dream when I was younger about lovveee. I've never had felt bad because I haven't dated anyone or kissed anyone. It will happen, don't rush. I know there's this thing in our bodies that naturally make us have these feelings which I'm not going into, but once you hit puberty (Oh yeah I said that weird word) all these feelings come to you and you start to turn into a crazy confused teenager. Teenage years are hard to get through because so much happens at that time. Luckily since I'm a legal adult now and have been for 9 months now, I'm almost out of the teenage years but have had my fair share from them. Don't get me wrong being an adult is okay an all and I haven't even started getting into it, I miss being a kid not a teenager, but let's not get into that.
Basically all I'm saying is enjoy being a kid. Don't worry about relationships and kisses and stuff. It's too complicated already especially since your body is maturing. Focus on having fun and doing good. Even high school relations are just weird. When people are teenagers, it's hard to say what real and what you actually feel. Don't worry about relationships. Get out in the world and enjoy life with friends. There is plenty of time later in lfe when you will deal with that. To be frank, I'm just so happy being single and of course there is a part of me that misses the feeling of being in a relationship (the science part) that makes me feel that way because of human nature, but I'm truly happy.
The reason I started writing this post is because Joey Graceffa, is one of the most wonderful human beings I've ever seen, he's healthy and in shape, he's funny, he good looking and beautiful hair and teeth etc... didn't get kissed until he was 20. 20. So there you have it. If you haven't been kissed or been in a relationship, please do me favor, and stop worrying about it. I want all of you out there to live your life, travel, do whatever it is that makes you happy and forget about relationships for now. Wait til you are older and more mature to handle them and the right time in your life. Relationships are not the reason for life. Yes, it's needed to produce more people but our world now is so much different than it used to back a long time ago. Have fun, hang out with friends, work on schooling, work on getting your life on then start then when you're ready. Don't do it cause you're lonely or sad. One person does not make your whole happiness.
Live your life.
----> Lauren
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